稳稳的幸福

陳奕迅 

穩穩的幸福

有一天　我發現自憐資格都已沒有

只剩下不知疲倦的肩膀

擔負著簡單的滿足

有一天　開始從平淡日子感受快樂

看到了明明白白的遠方

我要的幸福

我要穩穩的幸福

能抵擋末日的殘酷

在不安的深夜

能有個歸宿

我要穩穩的幸福

能用雙手去碰觸

每次伸手入懷中

有你的溫度

我要穩穩的幸福

能抵擋失落的痛楚

一個人的路途

也不會孤獨

我要穩穩的幸福

能用生命做長度

無論我身在何處

都不會迷途

我要穩穩的幸福

這是我想要的幸福

小房子

Stages of death according to buddhism

Following death, according to Tibetan Buddhism, the spirit of the departed goes through a process lasting forty-nine days that is divided into three stages called "bardos." At the conclusion of the bardo, the person either enters nirvana or returns to Earth for rebirth.

 

It is imperative that the dying individual remain fully aware for as long as possible because the thoughts one has while passing over into death heavily influence the nature of both the after-death experience and, if one fails to achieve nirvana, the state of one's next incarnation.

 

Stage one of the Bardo (called the "Chikai" Bardo), the bardo of dying, begins at death and extends from half a day to four days. This is the period of time necessary for the departed to realize that they have dropped the body. The consciousness of the departed has an ecstatic experience of the primary "Clear White Light" at the death moment. Everyone gets at least a fleeting glimpse of the light. The more spiritually developed see it longer, and are able to go beyond it to a higher level of reality. The average person, however, drops into the lesser state of the secondary "clear light."

 

In stage two (called the "Chonyid" Bardo), the bardo of Luminous Mind, the departed encounters the hallucinations resulting from the karma created during life. Unless highly developed, the individual will feel that they are still in the body. The departed then encounters various apparitions, the "peaceful" and "wrathful" deities, that are actually personifications of human feelings and that, to successfully achieve nirvana, the deceased must encounter unflinchingly. Only the most evolved individuals can skip the bardo experience altogether and transit directly into a paradise realm. Stage three (called the "Sidpa" Bardo), the bardo of rebirth, is the process of reincarnation.